It’s OK to ask. We’re here to help.
CHAT
At the end of your chat, your counselor will send you a link to a confidential survey. Please help us improve this experience by completing the survey!
TEXT
Text WHATSOK to 1.888.532.0550
Email with the form on this page
CALL
Call 844.WHATSOK (844.942.8765)
Please note that due to some technical changes to our phone system, as of 7/14/2026, our phone line has been experiencing connection problems.
We encourage you to reach out to us via chat, email, or text in the meantime. We apologize for this inconvenience.
Hours of Operation
While we are typically not available during the weekends, check to see if our chat and text lines are online - we sometimes are able to staff a few hours on the weekend. And if we are not here, we will be back according to the schedule below.
Hours are subject to change due to unforeseen circumstances.
Please know that we may be training new helpline consultant(s) so if you would prefer them not to participate or be present, please let us know when you start talking with us.
Monday 12pm-8pm EST
Tuesday 12pm-6pm EST
Wednesday 12pm-6pm EST
Thursday 10am-6pm EST
Friday 12pm-6pm EST
Your Privacy Matters
WhatsOK is committed to creating a private place where people can freely and openly discuss their concerns about sexual thoughts and behaviors and consider what steps to take next.
We maintain your confidentiality as long as you keep your anonymity. To maintain privacy, anyone contacting the helpline should refrain from disclosing identifying information, such as last names, addresses and phone numbers. We do not need any of these details to provide guidance and resources. If you have further questions, please ask or review our privacy policy.